HAPPY,  NEW YEAR

As a parent of a deployed soldier, holidays are a mixed bag of fruit. On one hand, I enjoyed the first Christmas of my youngest grandchild, 3 months old. I enjoyed having all my grandkids underfoot on Christmas Eve! I enjoyed spending time with both sides of our family, all here local and easy to get back and forth to see. I enjoyed waking up to enough snow to make it seem like Christmas...in the words of my almost 5 year old grandson, "NOW it's Christmas!" 

We were SOOO blessed beyond measure to Skype with my son at family gatherings while gift exchanges were taking place....it was so neat to pass his wife's phone around so everyone could visit a little while with him. Family photos were done with him showing up on the phone. :) 

But at the same time...we missed him dearly. WE were having fun. But what was HE doing?? Did it even seem like Christmas to him where he is?? Could he enjoy any aspect of it?? I hope so...we did everything in our tool box of resourcefulness to make him have a little Christmas in his boxes. Uncle Si T-shirt, pine scented do dads, wrapped food items in Christmas paper, the list goes on...was it enough?? Lord, did we fill in the gap?
There was comfort in knowing that the same Jesus we were celebrating in our location is the very same Jesus our son was personally celebrating in his location...no matter where we are or how far the distance may be, we can feel connected by and through the Savior. :)

New Year's Day. The ball dropped here...what happened over there? What did he get to visualize as the beginning of a new year around the world? Skype again allowed him to share it with his wife and family....thank You Lord!

2014. We are praying for a HAPPY YEAR alright. One that will see our soldier HOME. Let the real countdown begin....

CHRISTMAS IN A BOX

Just prior to deployment my son had to tell his little boy that Daddy wouldn't be home for Christmas. He had an Army job to do. That little four year old boy was zeroed in on that fact...

When my grandson came to my house the next time that's all he wanted to talk about...the fact that Daddy was going to be gone a long, long time and not be home at Christmas or for his birthday.

I had a thought. I said, "Do you remember when you lived far from Nana and you couldn't be here at Christmas last year? What did we do?" His eyes lit up. He said, "You MAILED my presents! And I liked getting presents in the mail!" 

 Uh huh....now he's thinking. "I bet we can mail Daddy's presents to him!" Yep...now we're on the right track. His spirits lifted and he immediately started to think about what to put in a box to mail to Daddy for Christmas....leggos, robots, cars. :)

There's a lot of love that goes into a box. Material things matter to our men and women who need them, but it's the love in there that matters most.  Love can be felt from a family member who made cookies, but it can also be felt from a total stranger who chose YOU to send a box to...

Little tokens of appreciation go a long, long way when one is off doing military work in far off places. Little pieces of home keep one connected. Attached. Remembered.

Today we are so fortunate to have the technology we do in keeping connected with ones serving overseas or elsewhere out of reach. I can't help but reflect on my grandparents and great grandparents during their children's service eras. Waiting for months at a stretch to hear anything from their children had to be exhausting! I have letters from WWII written by my great uncles to their mother (my great grandmother). Most of them reflect how lonely they were - longing to hear a word from home. I simply cannot imagine....today I can hop on the computer and jot my son a message. It might take a few days for him to respond, but he usually does. I am so very grateful for that!

Let's not allow facebook or the internet to replace handwritten letters from home. It's something tangible from a loved one that they can hold, feel, look at, and keep. 

So, send a box to someone overseas this Christmas. There are plenty of organizations out there you can support through if you don't have a specific soldier currently deployed to mail one to.

Jot a personal handwritten note to include in your box...it will mean the world to one far from home.

You will be surprised at how many people would be willing to help if asked. In the past month we have shipped six care packages to our son's unit to share and have four more ready to send. All boxes include donated items from our church and others that we've tossed in with our own purchases. To date all boxes have had shipping fees donated!

It's a terrific experience to see who helps in what way. It's humbling and it's amazing....and we are ever grateful! I have never laid eyes on the people my son serves with...but I feel like they are some of "my own" in this journey. And I will continue to bake them cookies until they all come home....

 LCain

REASSURANCE....

I had a sweet elderly lady call me last week.

I did not know her, but I do now...

She's a military grandmother who leads a prayer circle for our local military families through her church.

She asked if she could add our son's unit to her list.

Of course!

There's reassurance in knowing that others -many we do not know - are joining us in prayer for our loved ones serving far from home.

She mailed me this poem:

REASSURANCE
Dear Lord, could You spare some Guardian Angels 

To give me peace of mind
As my children wander from me 

And stretch the ties that bind
You have heavenly legions, Father, 

Could You send me just a few
To guard my eager children 

As I give them Lord to You
O thank You, thank You Father 

And oh my glad heart sings
I'm certain that I just now heard

The swish of Angels' wings!

 

(Image from Support Our Deployed Airmen and Support Our Deployed Troops website)

LCain

A SOLDIER'S PRAYER

 

 

Lord, I answered a special call

 

To serve, protect and defend

 

Be with me Lord wherever I go

 

Be near me til this journey ends

 

 

Protect us all here on the ground

 

Out at sea and in the air

 

Guide our each and every step

 

Keep us safe within Your care 

LCain 2012

WHERE'S YOUR HEAD?

A few months ago my father was diagnosed with metastatic liver cancer. It originated in the liver but had already spread to bone, and lymph. The first thing my Army son did was call his Pappaw and ask, "Where's your head in all of this?" They talked about God being in control, staying positive, and being strong throughout the journey of chemotherapy.

Sometimes we as military families need to ask ourselves that very same question. Especially if we are seeking a faith based journey. Where's our head in all of this?

For me, I yo-yo back and forth between being strong in the Lord and wanting to wilt to the ground in a heap at Jesus' feet. Sometimes my head says I'm being strong and trusting in Him...but my body does crazy things that indicate otherwise! My stomach hurts and churns whenever I eat. I wake up in the night and immediately think of my son and where he is and what he might have to endure there. I cry. My patience isn't as good. I feel "fussy" inside...agitated.

My head is not in alignment with my heart....

I pray. I seek God's Word. I think I'm on the right path in trusting God for His will with my son in this season of serving his country. Then why do I still experience these symptoms?

Because my heart is battling the human nature in me as a mother.

My Christian teachings in my head tell me what to do, but my heart has yet to follow in this particular scenario...and become aligned with one another.

Once that happens, peace replaces fear and worry and anxiety. Once I "let go and let God" there will be less tummy troubles, better rest, and my inner being won't feel in so much turmoil.

Will I go through this entire year in perfect peace? Probably not. I will probably need to pray for peace throughout this entire year. On a daily basis. It will be a walk with Jesus by my side, gently coaxing me to let Him handle the burden, because He is able to handle anything that comes my way. And my son's.

Isaiah 12:2  “Behold, God is my salvation; I will trust, and will not be afraid; for the LORD GOD is my strength and my song, and he has become my salvation.”

Sometimes I need to pull my head up out of the sand and raise it toward the Son. I need to stay focused on Him and His Words for me. That's where peace will be....and is.

Where are you in all of this? Where's your head? In the sand pit...or high and lifted up, looking at the Son?

Numbers 6:25-26 the LORD make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the LORD lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace.

LCain

TIE A YELLOW RIBBON....

We see them all the time. Magnetic yellow ribbons with the term "Support Our Troops" printed on them. Yellow ribbons tied around tree trunks in the yards of military families. 

 Here's a little history behind that customary expression of support...

 From Wikipedia
During the Iran hostage crisis, the yellow ribbon was used a symbol of support for the hostages held at the United States embassy in Tehran. In November 1979, a committee headed by Suzan E. Garrett of the Jaycees ladies service organization in Leitchfield, Kentucky organized a campaign to "Tie A Yellow Ribbon" around public trees as well as encouraging people to wear tied ribbons on lapels in support of the U.S. hostages being held in Iran. She was interviewed on ABC-TV by Ted Koppel on the newly created Nightline late-night news program and later by Peter Jennings for ABC's World News Tonight.
This symbolism continued and gained further notoriety in December 1979, when Penelope Laingen, wife of Bruce Laingen who was the most senior foreign service officer being held hostage, tied a yellow ribbon around a tree on the lawn of her Maryland home. The ribbon primarily symbolized the resolve of the American people to win the hostages' safe release. Yellow ribbons featured prominently in the celebrations of their return home in January 1981.
The yellow ribbon saw renewed popularity in the United States during the Gulf War in the early 1990s. It appeared along with the slogan "support our troops", in the form of yellow ribbons tied to trees, and countless other contexts. It often had the implied meaning of "bring our troops home" from the Desert Shield and Desert Storm troop deployments. It appeared again during the 2003 invasion of Iraq with similar meanings, most prominently in the form of a yellow ribbon printed on magnetized material and displayed on the outside of automobiles.

In the United States military, the symbol of the yellow ribbon is used in a popular marching song. The first version copyrighted was the 1917 version by George A. Norton, which he titled 'Round Her Neck She Wears a Yeller Ribbon" (For Her Lover Who Is Far, Far Away). While he tells in the song about the love between Susie Simpkins and her soldier lover Silas Hubbard, his chorus goes:

'Round her neck she wears a yeller ribbon,
She wears it in winter and the summer so they say,
If you ask her "Why the decoration?"
She'll say "It's fur my lover who is fur, fur away.

The lyrics were altered and the song was titled She Wore a Yellow Ribbon by Russ Morgan for the 1949 movie of the same name. This was performed by several popular musicians of the 1940s, including Mitch Miller and The Andrews Sisters. The Tanner Sisters recorded their version in London on December 30, 1949. It was released by EMI on the His Master's Voice label as catalog number B 9873.
The text of the Army version approximates the following, with local variations:

Around her hair she wore a yellow ribbon
She wore it in the springtime
In the merry month of May
And if you ask her why the heck she wore it
She wore it for her soldier who was far far away

Far away, far away
She wore it for her soldier
Who was far, far away

Around the block she pushed a baby carriage
She pushed it in the springtime
In the Merry month of May
And if you ask her why the heck she pushed it
She pushed it for her soldier who was far far away

Far away, far away
She pushed it for her soldier
Who was far, far away

Behind the door her daddy kept a shotgun
He kept it in the springtime
In the merry month of May
And if you ask him why the heck he kept it
He kept it for her soldier who was far far away

Far away, far away
He kept it for her soldier
Who was far, far away

On the grave she laid the pretty flowers
She laid them in the springtime
In the merry month of May
And if you asked her why the heck she laid them
She laid them for her soldier who was far far away

Far away, far away
She laid them for her soldier
Who was far, far away

Another wonderful site with more history of the yellow ribbon tradition:
http://voices.yahoo.com/history-importance-yellow-ribbon-662036.html 

My favorite yellow ribbon expression...

TIL THEY ALL COME HOME!!!!

How do you don your yellow ribbons in tribute?

LCain

THIS ABOUT SAYS IT ALL....

My words not needed. Only His....

To continue the text...

His peace will guard your hearts and your minds....

What every military family needs.

LCain 

(Photo from God Is Good site)

HE KNOWS MY NAME!

What would we do if a well known military official knocked on our door and called us by name when we answered it? We would be shocked, wouldn't we? The first thing out of our mouths would be "How do you know who I am?!" Some would be in awe, wanting to bow down in respect of this high ranking officer! This man who has made a career out of protecting... you and me. But some would be ashamed and try to hide and not let him in!

You can be assured that Jesus, our Lord, King, Commander and Chief knows our names. Each and every one.

Every time I fall into a pattern of worry over my soldier son or when I miss him terribly all I need to do is remember that Jesus knows my name. He knows my heart. He sees each tear that falls. And He hears my prayers.That's amazing! 

I am in awe of my Jesus and want to bow down in respect and amazement that He would take priority in focusing on...me. In knowing that He cared enough to die for me....and wants a personal relationship with...me. With ...you. But some will try to hide and not let Him come in when He knocks on the door of their hearts.

There is a song that keeps coming to mind from time to time. I first heard this on a Promise Keepers CD several years ago. Various friends of mine presented this song in church at different times through the years. It's one that I take to heart these days. And I can just hear my friends' beautiful voices from years past...

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hXsiWoyjw60   (You Tube link to copy/paste into your browser.)

(By Maranatha Singers)

Lyrics:

I have a Maker
He formed my heart
Before even time began
My life was in his hands

He knows my name
He knows my every thought
He sees each tear that falls
and He hears me when I call
I have a Father
He calls me His own
He?ll never leave me
No matter where I go

He knows my name
He knows my every thought
He sees each tear that falls
and He hears me when I call

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JKuEwf9W1cQ   And here is another song by the same title that speaks to me and maybe it will to you as well. (Again, it's another You Tube link to copy/paste).

Whatever military journey you are on, remember...HE KNOWS YOUR NAME! No matter where you go.

LCain

 Below image from Proverbs 31 Ministries website...

YOU ARE MY STRENGTH!!!!

The following links should take you to the You Tube song "You Are My Strength" by Hillsong....if you cannot click on them, copy/paste them into your browser. They both worked for me by copy/pasting.

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iwvGFWKBo4o 

OR

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=iwvGFWKBo4o

If not working, please search for the song on your You Tube search. The picture on the beginning of the video is of God's hands holding the Earth. Worth listening to...

LCain

GETTING THROUGH....AND GETTING BY

You know the old saying...."One day at a time." Well, for military families it's sometimes "one minute at a time!" My mother's favorite saying in trying times was "This too, shall pass."  And it usually does. Each day can bring its share of joy, blessings, smiles, tears, challenges, obstacles...all wrapped up in one complete package.

Below are 10 "tricks of the trade" I came up with to help us get through our days when our loved one is deployed or otherwise absent from our midst for long periods of time. This post can relate to anyone in our military family circles.

1. Accept the fact that we will move through the motions of our every day missing the one serving his/her country. They will be on our hearts, in our prayers, and on our minds continually!

2. Develop a routine for any children involved. Routines should include writing letters or drawing pictures to mommy or daddy. Let them mail them at the post office. Let them help pack care boxes to ship...so what if there are a few leggos tossed in? :)

3. Include mommy/daddy in daily conversation so the children will still feel "connected." Skype if / when possible.  Look at photo albums of favorite family pictures. Make the kids their own little photo book of your soldier. Keep mommy/daddy included!  All of this is as much for grandparents as it is for the remaining parent to do. Grandparents can become a strong influence/resource during times of parental absence!

4. Participate in spouse support groups or military mothers' groups in your area. There are also online groups. Pick one that meets your particular needs. Others going through the same situation can be a valuable tool in handling the daily stress. Good sounding boards.Helping someone else tends to help us in our own journey as well...

5. Church support. For Christian military families this is a large measure of support! There can be several willing souls ready to hop in the car and meet a need when called upon. Many are just a phone call away and stand in the gap, ready to help.

6. Family. I know of many military families who have moved to locations closer to relatives during a loved one's deployment/absence. While difficult to get re-established somewhere, family can play a crucial role in getting through and getting by.

7. Take care of yourself! If you are left with several children to raise "alone" during deployment/absence, make sure to get enough rest in the midst of all the business of your day. You won't be good to anyone if you are totally exhausted and/or sick all the time! Take some "me" time and don't feel guilty about it! Mom also used to say, "Things will look brighter tomorrow." She was usually right about that too. A little rest does wonders. It won't change anything but our mentality perks up a bit in order to deal with it.

8. When moods are low and you need a laugh, make it happen! Watch a funny movie. Do something really silly with the kids! Pull up You Tube videos of Funniest Home Videos or of babies laughing or silly animal videos. Read funny kid books. Laughter is contagious. Soon the whole household will be in stitches! And moods will lighten...

9. Stay positive. Don't assume the worst.We all have our tearful moments! I have found that when I allow myself to "go there" I worry about things that may never happen. Then, when I pull away from that track of thinking and keep my mind focused on Jesus' Words, the tears cease. Sometimes it's a roller coaster ride. Some days are harder than others. Besides, staying positive keeps me from eating everything in the fridge...

10. Pray with expectation! Many times we pray, but we don't pray with expectation! There is a difference...

I am sure there are many more that your Family Resource people have shared with you. This is just my perspective and I hope it helps!

So, with these tips in mind, below are a few scriptures to help us remain hopeful, positive, and strong to get through these seasons. The only way to "get by" is to "get through." We can't skirt the issue. It is what it is and yes, it stinks at times! But one minute at a time, we will survive...with a little help from our friends and family. And a lot of help from Jesus.

Below was found on:  http://www.whatchristianswanttoknow.com/bible-verses-about-strength-25-encouraging-scripture-quotes/#ixzz2hLL47fZ3

 Romans 12:12  Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.

 Romans 15:13  May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.

 Psalm 27:4-5 One thing have I asked of the LORD, that will I seek after: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to inquire in his temple.  For he will hide me in his shelter in the day of trouble; he will conceal me under the cover of his tent; he will lift me high upon a rock.

Zephaniah 3:17 The LORD your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing.

Isaiah 41:10  fear not, for I am with you;  be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you,  I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

1 Chronicles 16:11  Seek the LORD and his strength;  seek his presence continually!

Exodus 15:2 The LORD is my strength and my song, and he has become my salvation; this is my God, and I will praise him, my father’s God, and I will exalt him.

Philippians 4:13  I can do all things through him who strengthens me.

Psalm 18:32-34  the God who equipped me with strength and made my way blameless. He made my feet like the feet of a deer  and set me secure on the heights. He trains my hands for war, so that my arms can bend a bow of bronze.

 Bible Verses Showing Strength Comes From Faith Not From Fear

Are you struggling through a situation today and are grasping for answers? How should you respond? Respond with faith and not fear, knowing the promises of God and His mighty hand will hold you through any situation!

Psalm 27:1   The LORD is my light and my salvation;  whom shall I fear? The LORD is the stronghold of my life;  of whom shall I be afraid?

Matthew 17:20  He said to them, “Because of your little faith. For truly, I say to you, if you have faith like a grain of mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move, and nothing will be impossible for you.”

Mark 10:52  And Jesus said to him, “Go your way; your faith has made you well.” And immediately he recovered his sight and followed him on the way.

Matthew 21:21  And Jesus answered them,  “Truly, I say to you, if you have faith and do not doubt, you will not only do what has been done to the fig tree, but even if you say to this mountain, ‘Be taken up and thrown into the sea,’ it will happen.

Bible Scripture Quotes About Strength as Related to Courage

Jesus has truly overcome the world the day he gave His life for all on the cross. Take peace and be encouraged knowing it is Him who is mighty to save. He will not leave you or forsake you.

Deuteronomy 31:6  Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the LORD your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.”

John 16:33  I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”

Psalm 23:4  Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,   I will fear no evil, for you are with me;   your rod and your staff, they comfort me.

Amen.

LCain

FEAR FACTOR:

AN INSTINCTIVE DESIRE TO PROTECT OUR YOUNG -

AND WHAT TO DO WHEN WE CAN'T

Mothers of all kinds, be it in the animal kingdom or humankind, have this instinctive drive and desire to protect their children. 

My father raises cattle on the same farm that his father and grandfather raised cattle on.I cannot tell you how many times I have witnessed a mother cow bawling, stressing out and pacing back and forth when something wasn't right. Either she couldn't find her baby,  her baby got stuck in the fence, or was separated from her. Sometimes she could see her baby but couldn't get to it. In any case, mom was very anxious and making a lot of noise! There was one occasion recently that it seemed like mamma cow was beckoning us to come help her! She was looking back at us, bawling, then moving toward her baby and repeated this as if to say, "Come on! I need help! She's over here!" Jam, as we named her because she was stuck in a fence (in a jam so to speak), was all tangled up and mamma cow was highly upset! We eventually got Jam untangled and back safe and sound to her mother.As soon as we did the bawling stopped.

It's a God given instinct to protect one's young. The anxiety military mothers may experience (in my untrained opinion) could partially be related to this intense desire to protect that loved one from harm. It is a mother's job to nurture, care for, and protect the life of that child for 18 years. That's hard to just quit doing. In my own journey I have dealt with fear about two main outcomes of military service: 1. He could be injured or killed or 2. He could at some point suffer from PTSD.  And I can do nothing about preventing either! He is my son whom I love deeply. I don't want his mind or his body to experience trauma or injury! It hurts to even think about that. And it brings me to tears when I allow myself to go there. That's part of a mother's heart...I had family members who experienced PTSD symptoms after WWII..I pray for all of those experiencing this.

My son trained well... physically and mentally. But what about others? Are they fully prepared? What about the ones guarding the compound or driving the vehicles? Are they reliable with my son's life? Some mothers may not run these thoughts through their minds, but others will. Some new military mothers will weep just at the thought of their soldier being deployed! It's hard to adjust to.Being concerned for the safety of their child (no matter the age) over a long period of time is a huge monkey on a mom's back.And can get hard to carry. When we went to our son's graduation ceremony all of us as parents were escorted into a "holding room" for a while, waiting to get a glimpse of our soldiers. There was no joy. The air was thick with dread and uncertainty! Every mother had a wrinkle in her brow. You could have heard a pin drop in that room...because many of those graduating were heading to Iraq. Heavy stuff.

That's why Jesus tells us to CAST all our burdens on Him, for He cares for us! That word "cast" means hand over. Give up.The word "burdens" means those things that weigh us down. Heavy loads. Hard to handle. Too much for us to carry alone.The word "care" means loved. Cherished. One on one focus.

Honestly? I don't see how people get through situations like this without Jesus in their lives! He's my "go to" person. My Rock. My Shelter. My Refuge. My Hope. My Deliverer. My All...And God the Father knows our hearts! He loved HIS Son, in whom He was well pleased.  And God sent His Son into the world so that the world, through Him, might be saved. (Based on John 3:17) And if I may be bold in saying so, doesn't this relate in a sense to what our sons and daughters are doing? Being sent "into the world so the world through them might be saved (from tyranny, oppression, and terrorism)? God understands our hearts...

Moms, and I include myself in this directive, we need to lay our burdens down at the foot of the cross. Daily. Or maybe many times a day. Or it's going to be a long, bumpy ride. Physical symptoms may express internal anxieties if we don't get a handle on this fear factor. Do we TRUST Jesus enough to trust the lives of our (adult) children in His care? That's a huge question. Reality is, when we are His, our children are given to us to rear, but are His to use in adulthood. 

A statement made to me recently by a friend of mine (who is a pastor's wife) nailed it. "I'd rather my children die in the center of God's will than to live outside of it." Amen! I totally agree.

For me? I have that blessed assurance that my son is His.And that he is in the center of God's will. He and his wife pray for God's will in their lives.I have no doubt that a continued Army path is God's will for them. And that's where I need to stop the thought process! And trust the Lord. But at times, I continue with "But...this or that or the other." I'm still working on that part...maybe many of us are. And that's OK. Our Christian walk is something we have to work on every day for the rest of our lives until we see Him face to face. Then we'll know all the answers...

So for today, let's practice laying our burdens down at Jesus' feet and walking away from them. Let's work a little harder at letting Jesus carry this load. And let's trust Him a little more.Trust = Confidence in Him. Even when we may not know all the answers.Are you confident that Jesus can handle this journey?

Psalm 25: 4-5 Show me your ways, O Lord, teach me your paths; guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long.

(NIV)

LCain

(Image from Proverbs 31 Ministries)

MY PRAYER FOR YOU

(Male version)

Lord, give this soldier strength today

To see his duty through

Give him peace beyond all measure

Help him to fully rely on You

Bless him Lord with perfect health

As he serves his country well

Give him angels to guard every step

May Your praises he boldly tell

Surround him Lord with men of like mind

And protect his heart of gold

Give him courage for the journey Lord

Until his loved ones he will hold

LCain Aug 2013

MY PRAYER FOR YOU

(Female version)

Lord, give this soldier strength today

To see her duty through

Give her peace beyond all measure

Help her fully rely on You

Bless her Lord with perfect health

As she serves her country well

Give her angels to guard every step

May Your praises she boldly tell

Surround her Lord with those of like mind

And protect her heart of gold

Give her courage for the journey Lord

Until her loved ones she will hold

LCain Aug 2013

BEING STRONG IN THE LORD

It takes a lot of strength and courage to leave one's family for extended periods of time, whether at sea, overseas, or under the sea...and any other facet of the term "deployed." Not only do family members of the serviceman or woman need strength during an absence, but our troops do as well. We may be missing one or two individuals...they are missing many loved ones!

One doesn't have to be deployed to be missed or need strength! Mothers miss their sons and daughters as soon as they aboard the mode of transportation that will take them out of their arms and into the arms of the U.S. Government. I can guarantee you that our Christian military mothers and grandmothers have been face down on their knees before the Throne of Grace on multiple occasions from the onset of enlistment to the day those discharge papers are in hand! Proud, yes.But the soldier isn't the only one who needs strength and courage! Their families do too.

So how do we, as Christian military families, be strong "in the Lord?" Let's address three ways:
1. Scriptures written on our hearts, and minds
2. Prayer
3. Support networks

1. SCRIPTURES: Below are some Scriptures that may help in times of weakness

* Deuteronomy 31: 6 Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; He will never leave nor forsake you. Verse 8: The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.


*2 Chronicles 20:15-17 He said: "Listen, King Jehoshaphat and all who live in Judah and Jerusalem! This is what the Lord says to you: 'Do not be afraid or discouraged because of this vast army. For the battle is not yours, but GOD'S....you will not have to fight this battle. Take up your positions, stand firm and see the deliverance the Lord will give you, O Judah and Jerusalem. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged. Go out to face them tomorrow, and the Lord will be with you."

*Psalm 27:14  Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.

*Psalm 27:1-3 The Lord is my light and my salvation - whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life - of whom shall I be afraid? When evil men advance against me to devour my flesh, when my enemies and my foes attack me, they will stumble and fall. Though an army besiege me, my heart will not fear; though war break out against me, even then will I be confident.

*Psalm 118:6-7 The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me? The Lord is with me; he is my helper. I will look on triumph on my enemies. Verses 13-14 I was pushed back and about to fall, but the Lord helped me. The Lord is my strength and my song; he has become my salvation.

*Isaiah 40: 28-31 The Lord is the everlasting God, the Creator of the ends of the earth. he will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no one can fathom. He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall, but those whose hope is in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.

*Ephesians 6: 10-17 Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil's (enemy's) schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore, put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to all of this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always praying for all the saints. Pray also for me, that whenever I open my mouth, words may be given to me so that I will fearlessly make known the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains. Pray that I may declare it fearlessly, as I should.

(All of the above scriptures were taken from the NIV version of the Bible.)

2. PRAYER 

God knows our hearts even before we utter the first word! But He wants that personal relationship and communication with us that comes in the form of prayer.If you read the Psalms you will hear David crying out to God in many distressing situations. But one thing he makes clear over and over again. God hears our prayers! Every single one.

*Psalm 3 O Lord, how many are my foes! How many rise up against me! Many are saying of me, "God will not deliver him." (Selah) But you are a shield around me, O Lord; you bestow glory on me and lift up my head. To the Lord I cry aloud, and he answers me from his holy hill. (Selah) I lie down and sleep; I wake again, because the Lord sustains me. I will not fear the tens of thousands drawn up against me on every side. Arise, O Lord! Deliver me, O my God! Strike all my enemies on the jaw; break the teeth of the wicked. From the Lord comes deliverance. May your blessing be on your people. (Selah) NIV


Below is a prayer poem I wrote in 2012 for our military men and women:

A Military Prayer

Lord, I answered a special call

To serve, protect and defend

Be with me, Lord, wherever I go

Be near me til this journey ends

Protect us all here on the ground

Out at sea and in the air

Guide our each and every step

Keep us safe within Your care

LCain 2012

3. SUPPORT NETWORKS

After my son's enlistment in 2005 I sought out women of like mind to share the journey with. I had a few friends who weren't as new to the "military mom" arena and they were also Christian women. I learned a lot from them! I found a Christian military mothers' group nearby that I participated in when possible given my health issues at the time (recent blood clots in both legs). I gleaned a lot of wisdom from these ladies and enjoyed my time with them! It was important to me to find a Christian support network b/c I needed Jesus at the center of this journey....I needed (and still do) His peace and strength to endure what my son may be asked to do for his country. But to my disappointment, there weren't many Christ-centered organizations for military support out there! The term "political correctness" ring a bell? 
Dig deep. Research. Call churches and ask around. There are Christian military moms and grandmothers out there. And I am sure they are looking too....

I'll end today's post with words to a song by Steven Curtis Chapman "His Strength Is Perfect"

His strength is perfect, so perfect
I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength
But sometimes I wonder what He can do through me 
No great success to show, no glory of my own
Yet in my weakness He is there to let me know

His strength is perfect when our strength is gone
He'll carry us when we can't carry on
Raised in His power
The weak become the strong
His strength is perfect, is perfect
His strength is perfect

We can only know the power that He holds
When we truly see how deep our weakness goes
His strength in us begins when ours comes to an end
He hears our humble cry and proves again

His strength is perfect when our strength is gone
He'll carry us when we can't carry on
Raised in His power
The weak become the strong
His strength is perfect, is perfect
His strength is perfect


May we all remember the strength that can be found IN HIM to meet our every day...no matter what the journey brings our way.
LCain